A question asked by a user on reddit, receives a overwhelming response from other users who answer the question “What makes you like a person instantly?”. Ofcourse, everyone of us wants that we influence others and they be amicable with us, but how can we know that what makes a person more friendly to us? There are some common perspective among us that we all mutually like.
1. A Good Smile
Yes, no matter who you are, where you are from, how you look a good friendly smile always breaks the ice.
2. Being genuine.
It’s sort of a hard thing to identify immediately, but once you find it out, they’re exactly who they seem to be I really enjoy being around that person. As Dr Seuss said:
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
3. Favorite Band/TV Show
Obviously when they say their favorite band and/or TV show and it’s the same as yours, you both are going to gel together so easily by talking about it endlessly for hours.
They say, eyes are windows to our soul, they are indeed. They tell long tales of everything that the person has been through. Insightful.
Who doesn’t like to know new things about world? If you are intelligent and you get into a conversation about something that you are very informed about, just start showering everyone with your facts and your deductions about it but be careful not to publicly disgrace anyone, it will might boost your ego but it will destroy a potential friend.
Being humble, kind and friendly is always a sign of a extravagant person. Even if that is self deprecating humor, gotta be a good mix among sensitivity, confidence, and humbleness. As Albert Einstein quoted:
Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.
7. The ability to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously.
Yeah, this one is surefire way to impress everyone, because a person who can laugh on him/herself can be approached very easily as it is clear that they are not egocentric.
These are the seven ways which I think can genuinely help you get more friends and increase your connectivity with people.